The only anythingnearromancewithvampires that I can stand is Tanya Huff's Blood Ties/Shadows series, and her vampire is not mopey. Nor are his relationships the focus of the series - in the Shadows books he's more of a badass sidekick. And yes, he is a Hunter first and foremost. Which ♥

Twilight would probably make my undead tenants howl.