Oh, I'm already a little paranoid. XD I've had too many really just bad interactions, especially with guys that can carry conversation in topics I'm interested in (I JUST WANT TO BE TREATED LIKE A PEER WITH NERDS, DAMMIT.) to not be a little defensive.

It's just sad that womenfolk have to think about this. Clearly I need to just walk around with a nametag that says, "HI. I AM NOT INTERESTED IN YOUR PENIS."